On Confidence, Community, and non-Jews in MJ

Great_Synagogue_Plzen_CZOne of several books I am reading is Gary Tobin’s Opening the Gates, a call for mainstream Jewish denominations and organizations to engage in proactive conversion. His call is for synagogues to welcome rather than turn away the numerous non-Jews who show some interest in Judaism, whether due to intermarriage or through intellectual or spiritual searching.

Recently I summarized the first chapter of Tobin’s book here. The main reaction I got was members of the tribe saying, “Slow down.” I certainly understand why. And as I reacted to these comments more than once, I reminded people that Tobin’s suggestions are for the mainstream Jewish community and I was not suggesting that we in Messianic Judaism can simply apply them directly.

Mainstream Judaism is in a different place than Messianic Judaism. The differences include the good, the bad, and the ugly. Obviously I think the biggest difference is the joy and peace we have in our realization that Yeshua is Messiah. This lends an ardor to Messianic Judaism that is sometimes lacking in mainstream Judaism. Yet it is two other differences that bear more directly on the question of how to incorporate non-Jews into Messianic Judaism.

On Some Differences Between Mainstream and Messianic Judaism
Mainstream Judaism, particularly Conservative, Reform, and Reconstructionist synagogues, suffer from some level of identity insecurity just like Messianic Judaism does. Many adherents of these synagogues do not feel “Jewish enough.” There is, consequently, an unwillingness to encourage conversion. Diluting Jewishness is precisely what those insecure about their own Jewishness are afraid to do.

Yet the difference between mainstream and Messianic Judaism on this point is real: mainstream Judaism has every reason to have more confidence in their Jewish identity as it is already structured while Messianic Judaism must overcome a very real lack of Jewishness.

That is, mainstream synagogues, though feeling insecure in many ways, have nonetheless built Jewish space, Jewish life, and a Jewish ethic for their members that is clear and reproducible. Messianic Judaism, and I’m talking here only about the stream that is actually about Jewish people and Messiah, is still shrugging off its early Hebrew Christianity phase. Widespread mistrust of rabbinic literature, ignorance of history and tradition, and the inability to integrate in a truly Jewish manner our connection to both Christianity and Judaism still plague us.

The other difference I wish to highlight casts a more positive light on Messianic Judaism. We have a much greater ability to attract the non-Jew (I am speaking per capita, not total numbers, as our movement is obviously dwarfed by mainstream Judaism).

A Reform synagogue, if it set out on a decade-long program of welcoming all non-Jews interested in participating and in converting, would find it difficult to achieve a 50% ratio of non-Jews.

A Messianic synagogue, if it set out on a decade-long program of making non-Jews feel unwelcome and excluding them as much as possible from public ceremony, leadership, and liturgy would find it difficult to get their non-Jewish membership below 50%.

We offer the vibrancy of Yeshua-faith as well as the tradition and intellectual depth of Judaism. Untold masses of dissatisfied church-goers are interested in joining our communities.

Considering a Proposal from Tobin
Speaking about mainstream synagogues and their situation with regard to growth and inclusion, Tobin says:

Perhaps the greatest fear among those who wish to keep out the stranger is that the communal and ethnic ties are too weak to assist in-group inculcation and value-formation. Just as some Jews believe they are not religious enough, others may believe the community is not strong enough, distinct enough, or separate enough to absorb newcomers. Perhaps the community has been too weakened to identify the aspects of peoplehood that converts, through both the religious and the ethnic doors, would adopt.

Asking people to choose Judaism requires more of a sense of which identity and which behavior people are being asked to assume. Jews cannot advocate others joining their ranks without offering a set of values and norms. (pp. 50-51)

Tobin does not think that the mainstream Jewish community is actually too weak to incorporate non-Jews.

Yet we must admit, and this is what many of the Jewish commenters have been saying here on Messianic Jewish Musings, that Messianic Judaism is too weak to do well at incorporating large numbers of non-Jews.

The non-Jews among us, and I myself am not a born-Jew, must realize that if Messianic Judaism is to be about the remnant of Israel growing into Messiah and embodying the promise of Israel’s renewal, then Messianic Judaism must be a continuation of Israel and not a detour away from Israel.

This is the other side of the issue of inclusiveness in Messianic Jewish synagogues. Sure, we have plenty of reasons for incorporating and assimilating into our Jewish body the many non-Jews who understand the calling of Israel. Yet we also have a lack of Jewish strength which makes the insecurity of mainstream synagogues seem laughable.

Any theology of non-Jews in Messianic Judaism must not leave out this side of the equation. Any non-Jews demanding greater inclusion must understand and be part of the solution and not the problem.

Can these difficulties be overcome? Can Messianic Judaism bear the strain of weak Jewish identity further weakened by strangers who wish to redefine Jewish priorities? I do hope you will comment.


About Derek Leman

IT guy working in the associations industry. Formerly a congregational rabbi. Dad of 8. Nerd.
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4 Responses to On Confidence, Community, and non-Jews in MJ

  1. Mishkan David says:

    Good discussion of some of the issues involved in incorporating Jews and Gentiles into one body.

    I have had a situation of late at my shul, where Gentiles who have attended only a year or two think they are in a position to set direction and policy. These are the sort of people who just, “Don’t know what they don’t know”. That ties in more with your topic of diluting the Jewish identity by incorporating zealous Gentiles.

    There is a constant tightrope to be walked, it seems. How to incorporate everyone who feels called to participate in MJ without diluting the sense of Jewish identity? Are we in danger of repeating the experience of the original believers, losing their identity to the vast world of Gentile churchianity?

    I had hoped that by this time (I’ve been MJ for almost 30 years), we would have answered these questions a bit more definitively. But thanks for participating in the discussion, and opening up a place for people to consider these topics.

  2. ahavah007 says:

    A difficult question….. and one that I believe has confounded religious authorities for centuries….. ‘what on earth is to be done with the gentiles coming into faith in Yeshua HaMaschiach?’.

    So far I know of no place on the net where a person can safely go to learn, without bias, about the history of the Land, its people, how the different sects of Judaism formed and why.

    And yet there is a hunger that burns in my heart to know such things.

  3. “Yet we must admit, and this is what many of the Jewish commenters have been saying here on Messianic Jewish Musings, that Messianic Judaism is too weak to do well at incorporating large numbers of non-Jews.”

    Most Messianic Jewish congregations I know have Gentile memberships ranging from 60% (very optimistic and then only with very loose Jewish identity standards) to 90% (or higher). This being the case it’s a bit late to speak in terms of whether or not Messianic Judaism can handle such numbers of Gentiles in our midst or should it become a more welcoming environment for them – they are already here and Jews are already a tiny minority within Messianic Judaism.

    That said, if Messianic Jews are to fix the current situation the above trends will have to be reversed (rather than simply accepted and adopted to, as Tobin suggests).

    Here are some suggested practical steps:

    1. Established clear published guidelines on who is considered Jewish and who is not. (I found that nearly all Gentiles attending MJ congregations already consider themselves Jewish to some degree – mostly because of imagined, undocumented and unprovable distant Jewish ancestry, “direct revelation from G-d”, the Two-House doctrine, One-Law teachings, or simply because some think that their mere attendance of MJ synagogue make them “Jewish).

    Educate congregants about the various false identity theories. Lift up achievements of other nationalities and encourage people to take pride in their own heritage. Discourage Gentile believers from self-identifying as Jews or “Jewish” either in congregations or in public. This includes putting on of Jewish religious garb during services (except for kippas) or taking on Hebrew names.

    2. Disallow and teach against demonization of Christianity and churches. Establish connections with friendly local churches and direct Gentile seekers (especially the new believers) to them. It’s tough enough to have your spiritual life completely turned around, but to immerse a baby Gentile believer in Judaism and foreign Jewish culture in a Gentile majority country can be very confusing and very counterproductive – especially for the children.

    3. Top leadership of Messianic Jewish congregations must be composed of Jews – as leadership sets the overall tone of the congregation.

    4. Establish and teach about the differences of what G-d requires of Jewish believers and what he requires of Gentile believers when it comes to observing Torah as given to Moses. Disallow vocal One-Law proponents from propagating their beliefs or else ask them leave the congregation.

    5. Actively and specifically promote Messianic Jewish congregation as places for Jews and Intermarrieds.

    6. Work on developing and re-enforcing Jewish identity, religious and cultural heritage among Jewish believers and especially among their children. This includes cultural outings, Holocaust education, Jewish ritual, Halakha, Torah observance, traditions and kashrut, trips to MJ conferences and especially to Israel. Promote aliyah and establish connection with like-minded Israeli congregations, send children to Israeli camps. Establish Messianic Jewish schools.

  4. sln88 says:

    I’m kind of late with replying to this post, so I’m not sure if anyone will read it, but…

    I understand the reluctancy to let many gentiles join the MJ synagogues. It’s pretty important to have a stable Jewish identity first. But here’s the thing, as a ‘messianic gentile’ I have nowhere to go right now. I’m quite comfortable being a gentile, and I label myself a christian, but my beliefs are very different from the beliefs of the churches near me. I live in The Netherlands and that leaves me with two options:

    1) I attend a church and have to listen to Torah-bashing and get called a Judaizer (regardless of the arguments I bring to the table, most christians just want to believe whatever the church believes).

    2) I attend a MJ synagogue, but of the kind that forces me to keep the whole Torah.

    I’m missing an option #3. A gentile church with MJ doctrines. That’s what this movement really needs. The church and synagogue could obviously work together, but they’d still remain distinct. I think something like that is nessecary, at least until MJ grows enough and has enough Jewish members to really be Jewish.

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